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If that happened to my paladin I'd certainly try to convince you and the GM to disallow it as a violation of the PVP/don't be a jerk rule.

At the character level I made my position VERY clear at the beginning of the session.

We should not equate the PvP rule with the "don't be a jerk" rule. Those two things are not the same. As well, this doesn't fall anywhere inside the "no PvP" rule. The text of that rule is quite clear - using infernal healing on your character against your wishes, explicit or otherwise, isn't the same as "intentionally kill[ing]" your character.

At my table the inquisitor would have been booted out of the society and thus have been reported dead for failure to uphold one of the three tenants of the Society (cooperate).

Could you point to me where you find the authority to do such a thing?