Why a kama? A UMonk can is proficient and can flurry with any monk weapon and there are much better ones out there. Start with the waveblade as a straight upgrade for example.
Accomplished sneak attacker will give you nothing unless you take more levels in a class without sneak attack. It's probably more useful to take something like extra rogue trick (Ninja trick: vanishing trick) to be able to vanish in an instant, or to get a defensive feat to help you survive as a frontliner.
Charm person is one of those spells which you think will be useful more often than it actually is. I've been there. Also your Cha is low enough that you're not going to be winning opposed Cha checks to convince a charmed creature to do things it normally wouldn't. Try silent image for out of combat goodness, or maybe monkey fish. Though you are a spellbook-using character and can pick up a lot of spells if you get a little gold and some time in a city, so you can probably get more than the minimum 2/level during play.
Why a kama? A UMonk can is proficient and can flurry with any monk weapon and there are much better ones out there. Start with the waveblade as a straight upgrade for example.
why not just pick unarmed strike?
its a weapon that can be used with weapon finesse and if you keep up the monk levels it would get better and better. also work well with crane style and other monk things you take.
You don't need to burn a feat. You're an unchained monk.
Monks are proficient with the club, crossbow (light or heavy), dagger, handaxe, javelin, kama, nunchaku, quarterstaff, sai, short sword, shortspear, shuriken, siangham, sling, spear, and any weapon with the monk special weapon quality.
Tho' I forgot the eldritch scoundrel's reduced sneak attack, true.
Handwraps do work with special materials if you want to go that route:
Many unarmed fighters wrap their hands in cloth to minimize injuries to their fists. Some martial artists also weave small coins or metal bars into their handwraps, adding special material effects as well. Handwraps don’t alter the damage a character’s unarmed attacks deal. However, masterwork handwraps can be enchanted as weapons, providing their benefits on unarmed attacks the character makes with her hands. A character can’t benefit from both handwraps and other items that provide enhancement bonuses or weapon special abilities (such as an amulet of mighty fists) on the same attack.
Archives of Nethys agrees with d20pfsrd and is the official site; PCGen and Pathbuilder aren't official that I know of.
I suspect the waveblade thing goes like this: It's not in the Fighter weapon group named Monk, just the weapon group named Close. However, UMonks only go by the monk weapon quality, not by the fighter weapon group, and waveblades do have that.
monk (not unchained) is not proficient with all monk weapons (there is even a faq about it) the unchained monk how ever - is.
I suspect the waveblade thing goes like this: It's not in the Fighter weapon group named Monk, just the weapon group named Close. However, UMonks only go by the monk weapon quality, not by the fighter weapon group, and waveblades do have that.
This is correct. They do have the monk special property (which classifies them as a "monk weapon" according to the CRB), but they are not in the monk weapon group, but only in the close weapon group. Which means you could not select it with Ascetic Style, but unMonk does have proficiency with it.
Ther misconception comes from people misapplying the term "monk weapon" to mean "weapon in the monk weapon group", but the CRB actually has an index entry for the term "monk weapon" which leads to the description of the monk special weapon quality, said description also uses the term.
For a character with a single level of unMonk, waveblade is the best finessable monk weapon - two damage types, the highest base damage you can get on a finessable monk weapon, and the best crit stats. Unarmed with handwraps is nice if you want to use TWF, but that's rather redundant with Flurry.