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2a) I just checked the hotel's website, and it still says "Complimentary Parking". So, yeah...not so much.

That's definitely not complimentary.


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Son: "Dad, I have to write a paper on the Supreme Court."
Me: "Wow, that's gonna be tough. Ask your teacher if you can write it on paper instead."


OK. Construction costs around here have truly hit "ludicrous speed".

The fence at my parents' house got crushed by a tree, so our neighbor got bids on replacing a 50' (15m) section of fence.

The lowest bid? $6000.

For a fence.

Being a sensible man, given the choice between paying $120 per foot for a simple wooden fence and doing the work himself, my neighbor's doing it on his own, and I'll cover half his costs.

But sheesh. $6000. For a wooden fence.


I had to replace a portion of our fence a few months ago, and yeah, the bids were comparable. Aside from lumber costs still being high, any fence contractor worth their salt goes to the extra effort (at least here in Houston) to make sure that the posts are very deep and set in concrete. With all the floods we've had over the last decade (and just general moisture even without the floods), they don't want to constantly be coming back and dealing with repairing shifting, leaning fences. Or dealing repeatedly with the irate customers.


Andostre wrote:
I had to replace a portion of our fence a few months ago, and yeah, the bids were comparable. Aside from lumber costs still being high, any fence contractor worth their salt goes to the extra effort (at least here in Houston) to make sure that the posts are very deep and set in concrete. With all the floods we've had over the last decade (and just general moisture even without the floods), they don't want to constantly be coming back and dealing with repairing shifting, leaning fences. Or dealing repeatedly with the irate customers.

It's funny; I was about to complain that that's mind-boggling compared to what we paid our gardener just 5 years ago, but then I realized he did a 15' section for $1200, so it really wasn't THAT much cheaper...


NobodysHome wrote:

Ah, U.S. health care!

Impus Major went to the ER a couple of weeks ago for sudden internal pain. We drove in, got a couple of ultrasounds, learned that nothing looked out of order, and got sent home again with a couple of Tylenol.

So 3.5 hours in the emergency room and two ultrasounds.

The bill just came in: $10,158.42.

Wow. Over $2900/hour to sit there doing nothing for most of the time, with a couple of quick trips for scans.

So yeah, the insurance "discount" will drop it to around $3120, which I know because we already got the bill for $312 and we're 90% covered for in-network visits, but every time I see the raw totals for my kids' hospital bills I am incredulous.

That is insane.


Freehold DM wrote:
NobodysHome wrote:

So 3.5 hours in the emergency room and two ultrasounds.

The bill just came in: $10,158.42.

Wow. Over $2900/hour to sit there doing nothing for most of the time, with a couple of quick trips for scans.

That is insane.

Did I mention that the bill for Impus Major's myocarditis was $131,000 for a 3-night hospital stay? But actually, if you calculate that one on an hourly basis it was significantly cheaper at "only" around $1800/hour.


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NobodysHome wrote:

OK. Construction costs around here have truly hit "ludicrous speed".

The fence at my parents' house got crushed by a tree, so our neighbor got bids on replacing a 50' (15m) section of fence.

The lowest bid? $6000.

For a fence.

Being a sensible man, given the choice between paying $120 per foot for a simple wooden fence and doing the work himself, my neighbor's doing it on his own, and I'll cover half his costs.

But sheesh. $6000. For a wooden fence.

I think you can actually call Captain Yesterday, pay for his flight there and back and have him construct the fence and still have change.


NobodysHome wrote:
Freehold DM wrote:
NobodysHome wrote:

So 3.5 hours in the emergency room and two ultrasounds.

The bill just came in: $10,158.42.

Wow. Over $2900/hour to sit there doing nothing for most of the time, with a couple of quick trips for scans.

That is insane.

Did I mention that the bill for Impus Major's myocarditis was $131,000 for a 3-night hospital stay? But actually, if you calculate that one on an hourly basis it was significantly cheaper at "only" around $1800/hour.

Sweet jesus.


Freehold DM wrote:
NobodysHome wrote:
Freehold DM wrote:
NobodysHome wrote:

So 3.5 hours in the emergency room and two ultrasounds.

The bill just came in: $10,158.42.

Wow. Over $2900/hour to sit there doing nothing for most of the time, with a couple of quick trips for scans.

That is insane.

Did I mention that the bill for Impus Major's myocarditis was $131,000 for a 3-night hospital stay? But actually, if you calculate that one on an hourly basis it was significantly cheaper at "only" around $1800/hour.

Sweet jesus.

Well, it helps to know how the system works.

Insurance Company: OK, how much would you normally bill for this procedure?
Hospital: $1,200.
IC: OK. In order to be considered "in-network", you need to bill that procedure at $12,000, and we'll pay you $1,000 for it.
Hospital: But that's grossly immoral, and we'll lose money doing business with you!
IC: Yeah, sucks to be you. Your other choice is to be out-of-network and have NO clients.
Hospital: *SIGH*. OK. Where do I sign?

Once you understand that that's how it works, you know that all the numbers are made-up.

In terms of actual money changing hands, Impus Major's full treatment cost the insurance company $27,000 and us $2,000. Still a hefty chunk of change, but nothing like the billed amount of $131,000.

EDIT: And before the thread explodes, yes, I grossly oversimplified. The hospitals aren't saints, and the insurance companies aren't devils. And then you have malpractice insurance and laws that require treating people who can't pay and the actual financials are ludicrously complex. But, "The number you see on your bill was invented whole cloth with very little concern for actual cost," is fairly close to the truth.


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Ahaar, matey, my fees be more reasonable . Just slot a doubloon into me peg-leg and I'll have 'ee hornpipin' again in a jiffy.


"There's not a lot of fish that you want to cover with cinnamon, and this is not one of them."


*waits for NobodysHome's foodie opinion*


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Parent conferences are done.

They were mostly positive.

Except for the one dad who spent the whole half hour venting about how much he and his wife love me, but how they haven't decided whether to re-enroll their son for next year because they're so pissed off at our school administration.

And there's one mom who is about to start chemotherapy and we spent our whole session with her and her husband asking me for advice on how to emotionally support their daughter over the summer. Which I answered to the best of my ability but, holy crap, that's a hard one.

Tonight our whole gaming group, including kids, is going to go watch the D&D movie together. Which I really need right now. I am emotionally spent.


Its a good brain cleanser!


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Finished my week with going to the swimming pool I installed last year and cutting the last little bit in around the pillars of the new pool house.

Which makes it a little over a million dollars worth of work completed in a week.

Not too shabby!


NobodysHome wrote:
I'm reading about the massive U.S. intelligence leak caused by someone trying to win an argument* on Discord....

Okay, I'm game.

Did we really find out anything we didn't already know?

If so, what?

.
* I take it they won the argument?


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Diswhat?

Grand Lodge

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Diswho?


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I've got the Helm of Disfunction!
Umm... Dis*junction*.


Is it protecting from or causing disfunction?


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Quark Blast wrote:
NobodysHome wrote:
I'm reading about the massive U.S. intelligence leak caused by someone trying to win an argument* on Discord....

Okay, I'm game.

Did we really find out anything we didn't already know?

If so, what?

.
* I take it they won the argument?

Well, there's the whole, "Everyone knows that you're doing it, but you're not supposed to admit that you're doing it."

So the whole, "We (the U.S.) can probably manipulate and/or coerce these friendly governments into providing support to Ukraine."

Kind of like your parents and sex. Just because you know it happened doesn't mean you want to admit it.

EDIT: More seriously, the fact that there are NATO forces on the ground in Ukraine is bad, as it gives Putin an excuse to attack any country whose troops are identified in the leak. So I'll admit, I didn't think we were stupid enough to put people in, because for whatever bizarre reason handing a Ukrainian a rocket launcher is OK, but sending Ukraine a guy with a rocket launcher isn't, but we'll see how the whole thing plays out. Somehow I'm not an expert on international politics...

Grand Lodge

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This is what I've heard about it.


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TriOmegaZero wrote:
This is what I've heard about it.

I have had my suspicions this is actually you for some time now.


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We're supposed to get 2-6 inches of snow tonight. Because, Wisconsin.


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captain yesterday wrote:
We're supposed to get 2-6 inches of snow tonight. Because, Wisconsin.

*sobs*


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Fantasy Monster: Wandstorm


TriOmegaZero wrote:
Diswho?

DisPater?


captain yesterday wrote:
We're supposed to get 2-6 inches of snow tonight. Because, Wisconsin.

Des Moines got a dusting, but it didn't stick because it was up around 80 degrees on Friday.


Quark Blast wrote:

Did we really find out anything we didn't already know?

If so, what?

I found out that The Mandalorian isn't actually very good. Especially season 3.


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Dear newbie project manager: no, hip waders do not, in fact, protect you from drowning. Neither do fall protection harnesses. Also, chainsaws don't work when you put them underwater.

Don't get me wrong, he seemed like a nice guy, but after yesterday, I'm so glad he's not actually my boss.


David M Mallon wrote:
Quark Blast wrote:

Did we really find out anything we didn't already know?

If so, what?

I found out that The Mandalorian isn't actually very good. Especially season 3.

I'm loving season 3. And the series in general.

Grand Lodge

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Freehold DM wrote:
TriOmegaZero wrote:
This is what I've heard about it.
I have had my suspicions this is actually you for some time now.

I'm not crazy enough for Florida, and I wish I could grow a beard that good.


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TriOmegaZero wrote:


I'm not crazy enough for Florida, and I wish I could grow a beard that good.

Have you tried watering it?


A mixture of liquid manure and crushed eggshells will do the trick.


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Friday at game, the party almost ran away mid fight again. The short version is: big fight in room 1, they finally win, get ready to open door to room 2, no one has even asked to make Stealth rolls, no one has asked to make Perception checks to see if there is anyone on the other side of the door, they open the door, the 4 sorcerers inside send their readied Fireballs at the party, Wizard puts up a Wall of Force and insists they need to run away and come back tomorrow. The players all start arguing, with the Wizard demanding that they leave, and everyone else wanting to stay and fight. A few rounds later, half the party is in really bad shape, and considering running away. So I ask them "If you run away and wait until tomorrow, do you think they will be: A) Less prepared for you, B) More prepared for you, possibly with reinforcements, or C) Gone, leaving you with no idea how to progress in the adventure?" Considering that of the 7 vampires they had already defeated, only 1 had been staked, beheaded, and doused in holy water, that means the other 6 could be up and about in about an hour. And 5 of those 6 are Fighters, so no need to rest up to regain spells or whatever. Sure, the 2 Graveknights won't be back yet, but most likely the rest will grab their coffins, fill them with whatever valuables they can fit in them, and then slink away through the sewers out of the city. And good luck tracking them.

It just feels like they've gotten used to steamrolling everything (mainly because I haven't been doing a good job of making the fights more challenging to reflect the fact that there are 6 of them), so if the enemies put up any sort of solid resistance, they panic and want to run away. They also aren't very good at managing their resources, so they tend to blow all there spells, powers, abilities, etc... on the first encounter of the day, leaving them with almost nothing for any subsequent encounters. Which, of course, leads to "10 minute adventuring day" syndrome. Which makes it really hard to justify why the enemies are still sitting around oblivious when the party finally does get around to fighting them. But when I use the fact that the baddies know the PCs are coming, have observed them so they know what types of spells and such they are likely to use, and thus prepare for them, I am seen as being a "killer GM" and they complain about me.


gran rey de los mono wrote:
Friday at game, the party almost ran away mid fight again. The short version is: big fight in room 1, they finally win, get ready to open door to room 2, no one has even asked to make Stealth rolls, no one has asked to make Perception checks to see if there is anyone on the other side of the door, they open the door, the 4 sorcerers inside send their readied Fireballs at the party

RAW RAI and immersion this is dubious at best.

RAW you can't ready out of combat. This is what the surprise round is for.

There really is no surprise round when you're the one breaking down the door in the dungeon. You go in expecting a fight and you know exactly when its going to start. If anything that should give you an advantage for knowing exactly when 1 2 3 BREECH happens.

If the bad guys can ready out of combat, the players can too and ready to shoot/blast hostiles. Now everyone has a ready action. .now what? Roll initiative normally? hurt melee by having every fight start with either move or attack?


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NobodysHome wrote:
Quark Blast wrote:
NobodysHome wrote:
I'm reading about the massive U.S. intelligence leak caused by someone trying to win an argument* on Discord....

Okay, I'm game.

Did we really find out anything we didn't already know?

If so, what?

.
* I take it they won the argument?

Well, there's the whole, "Everyone knows that you're doing it, but you're not supposed to admit that you're doing it."

So the whole, "We (the U.S.) can probably manipulate and/or coerce these friendly governments into providing support to Ukraine."

Kind of like your parents and sex. Just because you know it happened doesn't mean you want to admit it.

EDIT: More seriously, the fact that there are NATO forces on the ground in Ukraine is bad, as it gives Putin an excuse to attack any country whose troops are identified in the leak. So I'll admit, I didn't think we were stupid enough to put people in, because for whatever bizarre reason handing a Ukrainian a rocket launcher is OK, but sending Ukraine a guy with a rocket launcher isn't, but we'll see how the whole thing plays out. Somehow I'm not an expert on international politics...

It was pretty clear from the get-go that Ukraine was using US/NATO signals intelligence as well as "plausibly deniable" help on the ground.

Apparently there were some things aired that did not pertain to Ukraine and that was also not so great. But then, I've taken a history class or two and read some on my own. Nothing I saw was a real surprise - like I knew last November that Ukraine was using up bullets, shells and other munitions at a rate exceeding the entire NATO production 7x over. If Mother Russia keeps it up, they'll be down to using cap guns and spit-balls by the end of this summer.


David M Mallon wrote:
Quark Blast wrote:

Did we really find out anything we didn't already know?

If so, what?

I found out that The Mandalorian isn't actually very good. Especially season 3.

Hey! Take it over here.

;)


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Quark Blast wrote:
NobodysHome wrote:
...
It was pretty clear from the get-go that Ukraine was using US/NATO signals intelligence as well as "plausibly deniable" help on the ground... Nothing I saw was a real surprise...

Right. But the "plausible deniability" is the cornerstone of our facade of trust. I'm sure South Korea has intelligence operatives in the U.S. We have intelligence operatives in South Korea. If one of those isn't true, then someone's intelligence director needs to be fired.

However, getting caught spying on South Korean communications was a big no-no, and puts their government in a bind because now the populace doesn't want to help the U.S.

Similarly, you can't possibly send advanced weaponry to another country without sending along "advisors" to teach the troops to use them. So U.S. "experts" were expected. But at least during the Cold War these "advisors" were always disguised as private contractors or civilians. Of course we'd never put military personnel into a war zone where we're purportedly staying out of it.

So while I'll agree with your statement that nothing in those documents was remotely surprising, it's kind of like your parents having sex: Everyone knows they did it, but nobody wants to even think about it, and catching them at it would be horrifying.


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Well, brother and his S.O. are finally on their way, and it continues to amaze me just how hard it is to deal with overnight company in a house where we have *no* unused space.

S.O. slept in the studio, meaning GothBard didn't have access to her work nor personal computer for much of the duration, which is even worse because her normal sleep cycle is midnight-9:00 am, and S.O. was going to bed at 10:00 pm. So one night GothBard ended up stuck in the kitchen playing mobile games until she felt tired enough to go to bed. Brother slept in the living room, so I had to be extra, extra quiet doing stuff in the morning.

And it made me think about all our other houses: Both brothers have houses with guest bedrooms that are almost never used. My parents' house had a converted garage. So everyone's used to the idea of people just having some extra room lying around that they can sleep in.

We live in the Bay Area. Virtually every room is multi-purpose: The garage is where Impus Major sleeps AND where we have our freezer. The living room is our entertainment area and where we typically have overnight guests. The dining room is our gaming area and my work area. The studio is GothBard's work area and her relaxation area. It's surprisingly disruptive to give up any one of these rooms to guests, much less two.

Anyhoo, they came, we all went and saw They Might Be Giants, and tonight our house will be back to "normal". Woo hoo?


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And in case you're wondering, They Might Be Giants are definitely an, "It depends on your tastes" performance.

They are very skilled at their instruments. They love to play their instruments. They love to jam out. They are less interested in the audience. So, they've been touring for years, so they tried. They had some scripted jokes. They tried to act like they were interested in the audience. But at the end of the evening, they were there to perform their sets, cleanly, professionally, and having fun practicing their art, and you were supposed to enjoy their skill.

It was far more "symphony" and far less "rock concert", if that makes sense.

Still, people had fun, and some people had a blast, so a lot of people obviously like that style.


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NobodysHome wrote:


We live in the Bay Area. Virtually every room is multi-purpose: The garage is where Impus Major sleeps AND where we have our freezer.

This is one of those California 'sleep in the freezer, lower your body temperature, then live for 10,000 years, gluten free' things, hey?


What's the best name for a pet termite? Clint Eats Wood.


What do you do if you see a spaceman? You park, man!


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I couldn't decide if I should go to the over-enthusiastic fortune teller, or the sullen soothsayer, so I went with the happy medium.


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NobodysHome wrote:

Well, brother and his S.O. are finally on their way, and it continues to amaze me just how hard it is to deal with overnight company in a house where we have *no* unused space.

S.O. slept in the studio, meaning GothBard didn't have access to her work nor personal computer for much of the duration, which is even worse because her normal sleep cycle is midnight-9:00 am, and S.O. was going to bed at 10:00 pm. So one night GothBard ended up stuck in the kitchen playing mobile games until she felt tired enough to go to bed. Brother slept in the living room, so I had to be extra, extra quiet doing stuff in the morning.

And it made me think about all our other houses: Both brothers have houses with guest bedrooms that are almost never used. My parents' house had a converted garage. So everyone's used to the idea of people just having some extra room lying around that they can sleep in.

We live in the Bay Area. Virtually every room is multi-purpose: The garage is where Impus Major sleeps AND where we have our freezer. The living room is our entertainment area and where we typically have overnight guests. The dining room is our gaming area and my work area. The studio is GothBard's work area and her relaxation area. It's surprisingly disruptive to give up any one of these rooms to guests, much less two.

Anyhoo, they came, we all went and saw They Might Be Giants, and tonight our house will be back to "normal". Woo hoo?

So.. ready for my visit then?


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Freehold DM wrote:
NobodysHome wrote:

Well, brother and his S.O. are finally on their way, and it continues to amaze me just how hard it is to deal with overnight company in a house where we have *no* unused space.

S.O. slept in the studio, meaning GothBard didn't have access to her work nor personal computer for much of the duration, which is even worse because her normal sleep cycle is midnight-9:00 am, and S.O. was going to bed at 10:00 pm. So one night GothBard ended up stuck in the kitchen playing mobile games until she felt tired enough to go to bed. Brother slept in the living room, so I had to be extra, extra quiet doing stuff in the morning.

And it made me think about all our other houses: Both brothers have houses with guest bedrooms that are almost never used. My parents' house had a converted garage. So everyone's used to the idea of people just having some extra room lying around that they can sleep in.

We live in the Bay Area. Virtually every room is multi-purpose: The garage is where Impus Major sleeps AND where we have our freezer. The living room is our entertainment area and where we typically have overnight guests. The dining room is our gaming area and my work area. The studio is GothBard's work area and her relaxation area. It's surprisingly disruptive to give up any one of these rooms to guests, much less two.

Anyhoo, they came, we all went and saw They Might Be Giants, and tonight our house will be back to "normal". Woo hoo?

So.. ready for my visit then?

Are you asking if the freezer is empty?


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Limeylongears wrote:
NobodysHome wrote:


We live in the Bay Area. Virtually every room is multi-purpose: The garage is where Impus Major sleeps AND where we have our freezer.

This is one of those California 'sleep in the freezer, lower your body temperature, then live for 10,000 years, gluten free' things, hey?

You make that statement in jest.

Try going to a bakery in the Albany/Berkeley area. You will have to actively try to find baked goods that aren't gluten-free.

And while I've heard many argue that it's perfectly easy to make gluten-free baked goods that are just as good as wheat-based ones, nobody has informed our local bakers of these techniques...


It isn't easy, by all accounts.

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