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I would go dwarf for race and allocate stats w/race factored as
str 18
dex 16
con 15
int 13
wis 19
cha 9

At 4th go wisdom bump the either con 8th and strength after or just strait strength bumps. For feats it's really up to you except for 3rd and 5th, at which I would take crusader's flurry and power attack respectively. Maybe steel soul for some extra saves vs spells? As I said, I don't like the vows myself, but they are helpful.

...especially with high sex and focusing on illusions.

I'm going to assume you mean dex. You dumped charisma remember? Then again maybe that's what the illusions are for...

One of the cool things about sorcerers are that they don't have opposed schools, so even if you decide you want to focus on a school, the rest of the spell list is still open to you at no detriment. Keep in mind though, you have limited amount of spells known. Be sure to pick spells you will cast alot and get to know them well, and you'll do great.