You seem to Think your party have a problem and try to fix it by changing you friends character. If you play a witch instead of a wizard you Can fill the hole your self. It seems you plan your wizard to be able to fill every potential wizard role? I suggest Against that since that Will spread you thin and put you in risk of not fillig any.Thanks for the advice but noSince you made your character incorrectly, this advice is actually sound. You would have arcane power and still be able to heal and have crowd control.
I get the feeling you're not going to change that adoption trait, however.
1 Okay I will probably switch to a witch
2 I had already changed the adoption trait