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May you ban PFS players whose mental illnesses are disrupting official PFS games?

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I would imagine that you can turn away any player for "disruptive" play. I would stay away from labeling anyone with a mental illness, true or not. I also don't know that you can "ban" anyone. All players must not be disruptive, end of story. I assume you already tried your level best to work it out with the individual.

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I think that banning someone for something like that would be against the spirit of the game. You wouldn't (I hope) ban someone for a physical handicap, race, gender, or sexual orientation. Mental illness should be no different. If, however, you wish to prevent them from playing in your group because their illness results in inappropriate behavior which disrupts play for others, you're in a sticky situation. If it were Tourette's Syndrome, would that be grounds for banning? What if one interpreted symptoms of Down's Syndrome as "disruptive"?

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yoda8myhead wrote:
I think that banning someone for something like that would be against the spirit of the game. You wouldn't (I hope) ban someone for a physical handicap, race, gender, or sexual orientation. Mental illness should be no different. If, however, you wish to prevent them from playing in your group because their illness results in inappropriate behavior which disrupts play for others, you're in a sticky situation. If it were Tourette's Syndrome, would that be grounds for banning? What if one interpreted symptoms of Down's Syndrome as "disruptive"?

Understood. Unfortunately, this player's behavior is disruptive). We're not not having fun, including the GM. Instead, we've having to focus our energies on constantly 1) getting the player's attention focused back to the game (he'd rather play Magic: the Gathering); 2) stop his insistent behavior for PvP; 3) repeat the simplest rules to him; 4) "calm" him because he becomes belligerent when people try to speed him up, including the GM.

We've had to cancel numerous games because we could even come close to minimum size. And I've just recently learned that, because we game in a public place, folks who were interested in joining our games decided against it when they saw his behavior.

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Dave the Barbarian wrote:
I would imagine that you can turn away any player for "disruptive" play. I would stay away from labeling anyone with a mental illness, true or not. I also don't know that you can "ban" anyone. All players must not be disruptive, end of story. I assume you already tried your level best to work it out with the individual.

Yes, we did. The player has not changed his behavior. Player attrition is rapidly mounting; we play in a public place and we know new players have been turned away when they've observed this person's behavior.

Paizo Employee Creative Director

If a player is causing other players to quit the campaign, or if he's doing something that is unacceptable in a public area... it's not a question, in my mind. It's a game. If you can't play nice, you shouldn't play at all.

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joela wrote:
May you ban PFS players whose mental illnesses are disrupting official PFS games?

As I understand it, Josh Frost (head of OP) is the only person who can ban a player from the PFS entirely. However, you're quite free to banish him from your venue using whatever rules you see fit.

Or...

He can play his character wherever anyone will let him, but you don't have to let him.


Just remember, since you play in a public venue, if this player has a problem that makes him/her recognized by the law as being handicapped, then you or the place you play could be accused of discrimination if you just kick the player out. You should discuss the situation with the people who run the place to see how they want to handle it, as the penalties you could eventually face range from just needing to find a new place to play up to you and/or the owners of the place getting sued for discrimination.

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Enevhar Aldarion wrote:
Just remember, since you play in a public venue, if this player has a problem that makes him/her recognized by the law as being handicapped, then you or the place you play could be accused of discrimination if you just kick the player out. You should discuss the situation with the people who run the place to see how they want to handle it, as the penalties you could eventually face range from just needing to find a new place to play up to you and/or the owners of the place getting sued for discrimination.

Understood. That's why we've been tolerating it as long as we can. But we've reached the point, as you can see from my answers above, that we're canceling games due to lack of players, both established and new. (And no, he doesn't get the hint or from private discussion that his behavior is a cause.)

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joela wrote:
Understood. That's why we've been tolerating it as long as we can. But we've reached the point, as you can see from my answers above, that we're canceling games due to lack of players, both established and new. (And no, he doesn't get the hint or from private discussion that his behavior is a cause.)

I have a question. Could any of his behavior be considered actually criminal in nature? The ADA, last I checked, still doesn't excuse one from having to obey other laws in public, including a number of misdemeanors. Calling the cops on this guy is probably a hair extreme, but if he tries to bring it to court saying "He did X, Y, and Z, here's a police report to prove it," would probably convince a reasonable lawyer to tell him to drop it.

Obviously, IANAL, usual disclaimers apply. But it sounds like this guy's just bad for business in general.

EDIT: And it just hit me that you mentioned he repeatedly attempts to PvP. That's a no-no per the PFS rules, so I would ask about having him banned for his behavior if he keeps doing it. Sure, he could register another PFS number and disrupt other tables, but you know he's got a ban on him and you can't let him play. And if he tried to use his own number and character, he'd be caught out the second the GM tried to report him.


GM's discretion. If the GM feels the player is a disruptive hindrance and is keeping others from joining, then cut him loose. I'm not going to make that decision for the GM, though.

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Chris Kenney wrote:


EDIT: And it just hit me that you mentioned he repeatedly attempts to PvP. That's a no-no per the PFS rules, so I would ask about having him banned for his behavior if he keeps doing it. Sure, he could register another PFS number and disrupt other tables, but you know he's got a ban on him and you can't let him play. And if he tried to use his own number and character, he'd be caught out the second the GM tried to report him.

Dang. Good point.

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Joshua J. Frost wrote:
GM's discretion. If the GM feels the player is a disruptive hindrance and is keeping others from joining, then cut him loose. I'm not going to make that decision for the GM, though.

Understood. And thanks. We suspected it was, ultimately, our call but we're all n00bs to organized game play. We want the players, especially newbies, to get as much enjoyment as we get. This issue, though, was out from left field for us.


While there might be some OP programs out there that hand down bans for things like this, I find banning to be largely unenforceable and would rather rely on my GMs to use good judgment when asking players to leave. That said, I do appreciate you posting about it here, if only to keep me in the loop.

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Based on the descriptions you provided, you've already gone beyond reasonable accommodation of a handicap. You should discuss this issue with the manager or supervisor responsible for your gaming location, ensuring that you both agree about how to deal with the disruptive player.

If I were in your place, I would speak with the player, politely explaining that his disruptive behavior has made it impossible to continue gaming with him. If he is a minor, I would contact his parents. I'd also indicate that if he demonstrates better behavior in the future, he could be allowed to rejoin the group.


Sir_Wulf wrote:

Based on the descriptions you provided, you've already gone beyond reasonable accommodation of a handicap. You should discuss this issue with the manager or supervisor responsible for your gaming location, ensuring that you both agree about how to deal with the disruptive player.

If I were in your place, I would speak with the player, politely explaining that his disruptive behavior has made it impossible to continue gaming with him. If he is a minor, I would contact his parents. I'd also indicate that if he demonstrates better behavior in the future, he could be allowed to rejoin the group.

What he said. :-)

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joela wrote:

Understood. Unfortunately, this player's behavior is disruptive). We're not not having fun, including the GM. Instead, we've having to focus our energies on constantly 1) getting the player's attention focused back to the game (he'd rather play Magic: the Gathering); 2) stop his insistent behavior for PvP; 3) repeat the simplest rules to him; 4) "calm" him because he becomes belligerent when people try to speed him up, including the GM.

We've had to cancel numerous games because we could even come close to minimum size. And I've just recently learned that, because we game in a public place, folks who were interested in joining our games decided against it when they saw his behavior.

Do you mind if we take him ?

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I kid ! ;)

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I've spent many years working with populations that have mental illnesses.

One of the key things in working through issues like this is to just focus on the disruptive behavior. Don't frame the issue in terms of a mental illness, even if the person causing the problems wants to frame it in those terms.

Instead give clear expectations on behavior and if those are not met then a consequence needs to be followed through.

As was suggested, talk with the proprietor and see if they can come up with their own rules of conduct for behavior in the store and train employees on how to respond to violations to that conduct.

We have great management at our local FLGS and the staff are trained to enforce the rules of conduct. There isn't anything draconian with the rules, basically it is to create an atmosphere that is PG or at most PG-13.

If that is set in place you can often just point to the rules of conduct as the "bad cop" for the problem and that will usually solve it.

Still, if I were in your situation, and it is admiral to be accommodating to someone who does have a mental illness as they do need community support if they are going to succeed, here are some of the things I'd do.

First, If they are willing I'd have a conversation with the person and ask them if there was anything that I could do as a GM that would help them succeed at the table. Some people will mental illnesses will have developed various strategies with their social support networks which help them in life, so there might be some simple things that if you are aware of could solve many problems.

The above might not be for you, but its just a suggestion if you want to find successful strategies to accommodate for people with issues. Not everyone can pull off a social worker mode and so you might just want to go right to the structural aspect...

For basic behavioral consequences:

Make expectations clear, ideally in writing and posted.
If those expectations are not met then give a warning.
If the problem still persists then issue a suspension.
If after the suspension there are still problems then expulsion or even longer suspension.

Because it is a public venue I'd also document these actions due to behavioral problems. It helps to protect you in case someone take issue with the decisions.

In the years I've been playing Living Greyhawk and now PFS it has happened a couple of times that someone suffering from PTSD or other mental and emotional issues became disruptive to the games we played. Using the above framework helped to get through those awkward moments.

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Mok wrote:


For basic behavioral consequences:

Make expectations clear, ideally in writing and posted.
If those expectations are not met then give a warning.
If the problem still persists...

Thanks, Mok!

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