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I honestly hope this doesn't rattle any cages, but am I the only one that finds the whole 'woman takes the man's name in marriage" thing a little weird and antiquated?No.It would be interesting to find out where and why in history this began. Any help?
Without doing any actual research, I would assume it comes from times when families were tribes/clans. When you married outside of the clan you became part of the new one and took that name. I'm also pretty sure that there were places where it was custom for the man to join the woman's clan and thus take her name.
And there are occasions today where the man takes the woman's name, or in the instance of all those famous folks where they both keep their own names.
Personally, I don't see how a couple could see themselves as one family if they don't share the name, but that's just me.
My wife kept her name. I support her desicion
I have had doctors named Dr. Trust and Dr. Ram. My dad has worked with, on occasion, people named Bruce Bruce, Chuck Steak, and Dick Sprinkle.I knew a girl named Ashley who married a guy whose last name was ... Ashley. So now she's Ashley Ashley.
I really think I would have hyphenated with my maiden name, at least. I mean, I assume Bruce Bruce was victimized by his parents, but she chose the name.
Similarly, I knew a girl named Amy who married a guy whose last name was Amy. Yep, just like that...Amy Amy, and she has a lot of fun with it.
I also know a Linda Hand. And then there's the famous Texan twins, Ima and Yura Hogg.
BTW...I think a wife taking her husband's name is a good thing.
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Here is the charming story of the impending wedding of Kelly Hildebrandt to.....Kelly Hildebrandt. I guess they will have no trouble deciding if the wife should take the husband's name. She already has it.
Here is the charming story of the impending wedding of Kelly Hildebrandt to.....Kelly Hildebrandt. I guess they will have no trouble deciding if the wife should take the husband's name. She already has it.
Then they'll have a daughter and a son, both will be named Kelly, and MTV will put them on a reality show Life with the Kellys and all will good. 'Til they become unemployeed and have to get jobs with kelly Services.
Here is the charming story of the impending wedding of Kelly Hildebrandt to.....Kelly Hildebrandt. I guess they will have no trouble deciding if the wife should take the husband's name. She already has it.
She should hypenate it: Kelly Hildebrandt-Hildebrandt :)
My brother went to school with a girl whose last name was Lear, her first name was Crystal, and her middle name Chanda. I kid you not. Her younger sister had an equally silly name, but fortunately I have blocked it from my mind.
My brother went to school with a girl whose last name was Lear, her first name was Crystal, and her middle name Chanda. I kid you not. Her younger sister had an equally silly name, but fortunately I have blocked it from my mind.
My mom's maiden name is Lamp. My aunt Terry married my Uncle Bill who's last name is Shade. Her name is now Terry Lamp-Shade.
Had a classmate named Justin Thyme....he made sure to always be a few minutes late
Also...one of my good friends is a PTA class president for her kids school and they had a kid on the rolls who bore the name Kilo Cartel...but thats not as bad as one of my g/f's employees its Aquanetta Jones
Had a classmate named Justin Thyme....he made sure to always be a few minutes late
But he was never late, always just in time...??? lol, bad one and obvious, but funny
Had a classmate named Justin Thyme....he made sure to always be a few minutes lateBut he was never late, always just in time...??? lol, bad one and obvious, but funny
He must have hated his parents.
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I grew up with a lot of Vietnamese kids, and have to say small Texas towns and names like Fuk, Duc, Long and Dong have to be hard to grow up with.
The toughest Hispanic kids in the neighboring high school was named Domingo Flores. "Aww, how cute, Sunday Flowers!" "*punch!*"
Edit: See, the boards don't even like a legitimate name. ;)