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Kyra I asked Meri if she'd thought about being wed to you and she ran away before answering the question so I'll ask you, has the topic of marriage come up between the two of you? If you were to have a wedding who, of your iconic friends, would you invite? And are there any that you would invite that would turn you down? I just recently got married and we invited over 150 people but only about 22 showed up...
Just wanted to pop in and say Congrats to Paizo for getting nominated for and winning 10 Ennies. That's super amazing and it shows you that we the fan's are behind you. Congrats and hopefully I will see you next year...still trying to convince my wife to let us go lol.
Merisiel Sillvari wrote:
hmm that was odd...well off to ask Kyra the same question *goes to find and resurrect the ask Kyra thread*
Not sure if this is where to put this but I'm sure if its the wrong spot one of our friendly mods will move it.
For those of you who are interested spoilered below is a bit of background that will help frame this a little.
Due to some irrelevant events in my wives past she has lost custody of all 6 of her children so I don't get much time with my kids. What time we do get is with only our 13 and 16 year old boys since her mom has custody of them and has agreed to let us see them. I hadn't met either of the boys until the day before my wedding 4 months ago so building our relationship has been...difficult to say the least. We also live 3 states away from them.
I just wanted to let everyone know I've successfully gotten my step son addicted to Pathfinder. I believe I've even managed to stave off his trying of 4th and possibly 5th edition in favor of Pathfinder though that surly wasn't my intent.
He's been expressing interest in table top gaming for a little while to me through our limited time together(see spoiler above) and with them visiting us for about 2 weeks I figured this would be a great time to try to get him into the fold. He had mainly expressed an interest in D&D because that's what his friends family plays so I was slightly concerned that he wouldn't take to Pathfinder. I got him the beginner box about a month ago and impatiently waited for the time to give it to him.
That time came on day 2 of their visit between doing other activities with the family. He saw the immense library of books I had down stairs where the boys were sleeping and started to ask me about them. After a few minutes of conversation I asked if he'd like to give Pathfinder a try and he said he would but didn't know where to get started. I just let out a casual laugh and gave him the beginner box. He's eyes went wide and immediately gave me a hug. I was actually taken aback by it because it was the first time that he'd hugged me when I wasn't leaving a visit so that was another monumental moment in our relationship. He then ran down stairs and tore it open. I haven't seen him this excited about something since we met and it felt good to know that it was something I have him that was bringing that Joy.
We were leaving about 15 minutes late to go see a movie and all the way there he talked about the type of character he wanted to play and even created a background off the top of his head. I knew then that we might have a success on our hands but I didn't know the level of it. We made plans to go to the game store the next day to get him a set of dice and some other books so he could start learning about Pathfinder. Being that he is 16 and incredibly mature and intelligent for his age I thought he could handle the full rule set so I planned on getting him the core rulebook.
The next day we went to the game store and he and his brother picked out their own sets of dice and we picked up the bestiary, the game masters guide, and a copy of Raise of the Runelords adventure path so he would have something to run his brother through when they went home. The store didn't have the core rulebook and we were slightly disappointed but I let him know he could use my autographed copy as long as he promised to be careful with it and didn't forget to give it back.
All the way home he sat in silence reading the bestiary and I knew he was hooked. He practically dragged me down to the basement where him and I started to work on his character as well as his brothers character. I had a work meeting I had to attend to unfortunately I had to leave soon after getting back from the store but my wife was nice enough to finish up all the characters so we could play when I got back.
I flew home after my meeting and we quickly scarfed down dinner and raced off to the basement. There we sat, him, my wife, my sister-in-law, his brother, and I around the table which I have spent many many hours playing pathfinder. It felt almost surreal to be sitting down here with two of my kids after just meeting them 4 months prier. We quickly wrapped up any final details on characters characters and then we were off to start the adventure.
We made it through my almost 2 hour role-play session in Sandpoint before the adventure even began and I found out what an amazing role player he is. Not only did I see him come out of his shell but he showed great innovation when interacting with the NPC's I had in town. We then set off on the actual adventure and made it through the first couple of rooms and played until about 2 in the morning before we had to call it quits so I could get some sleep. With in minutes he was on Skype telling his friend back home all about Pathfinder.
The last week and a half have been spent finishing up the beginner box and then transitioning to the full rules and starting on Carrion Crown. He's having a blast and every night after I get home from work I'm greeted by "Dad can we play Pathfinder?" I've created a bit of a monster but boy am I happy to have done it.
So are there any other step parents/parents that want to share their experiences here? Feedback is also appreciated.
Meri will we ever see you and Kyra in more casual wear, or dare even, fancy dresses?
Meri doesn't seem like the fancy dress type...but I'm sure Kyra could convince her to wear one if needed.
Meri speaking of fancy dresses have you given much thought to Marriage? Or are you and Kyra not at that stage in your relationship yet?
If you were to have a wedding who, of your iconic friends, would you invite? And are there any that you would invite that would turn you down? I just recently got married and we invited over 150 people but only about 22 showed up...
another question for you my lady, that is if you haven't stabbed me yet for my previous set.
If there was to be a Pathfinder Movie would you star in it? Who else would you like to see along side you(besides Kyra)?
Were you involved in either the GiantSlayer or Hells Rebels adventures at all? If so did you enjoy them?
What is it like being with someone who does exactly what you do? Do you find it unnerving that Kyra takes such risks with her life and that you could lose her at any moment due to the line of work you're in?
Did you enjoy being able to write for the AP line again? Its been brought up elsewhere that AP 100 will be your first solo credit since Brinewall Legacy.
Was it hard balancing writing an AP with the amount of other work you do for Paizo? Or did Lisa/the others give you a slight break to concentrate on writing?
Which of the Paizo Staff will be the next to author an AP Volume? or are you not ready to disclose this yet(since you mention not wanting to take limelight away from the 2015 AP's).
Its almost like there CEO was asked to analyze why TSR failed at a previous job or something...nah that's just nonsense lol.
mathpro18 - Well, taking a look at my hand-dandy Ultimate Campaign book under Moral Conflicts, I can see that a person can be guilty of murder but still be Chaotic Good, so you're fine on that front... but the important question is the rest of Who/Where/When/Why/What/How. What is murder and When is presumably recent, but Who was murdered, Where did it take place, Why did he do it, and How does he feel about the whole situation? If he murdered a minor lordling related to the Surtovas, the Swordlords might actually approve of this and be acting to help him hide out in the Stolen Lands for a while until everything blows over by granting him a charter. Or maybe they don't even know about the murder because it took place up in Port Ice or somewhere similarly distant within Brevoy. Playing a character guilty of murder isn't a problem... playing a character with a weak or inconsistent background is.
THANK YOU!!!! Don't worry I will have all the questions answered with my background.
DM I have a question for you. I'm taking the brigand trait as my capmaign trait. Would it be possible for my character to be running from a murder charge in Bevoy which is why he's come to the river kingdoms to hide? I don't want to play him as a murderer but I think it would be fun to play him as a person who has a short fuse. He obviously wouldn't continue killing people it would be more of a situation where his anger got the best of him and before he knew it there was a dead body at his feet.
Is this a little to close to evil for you?
I'll take healer if you would allow the warpriest class from the advanced class guide. Right now it will have to be the playtest version but I will upgrade him when I get my hands on the advanced class guide.
Grand Moff Vixen wrote:
*waves back* Hey vixen sorry I disappeared but I'm back now.
GM: I will have my rogue up later today.
Some of your questions really depend on if you want to use the full rules or stick with the beginner box.
There are more races, classes, feats, spells, skills(I think), and additonal rules in the full version of the game as well as a different character sheet(several actually) but it really depends on what you want to play.
Thanks for the input guys and Brin would you mind if I PM'ed you to talk with you a little further...I think your experience working with teens might be helpful. And thanks for the end of your post...you have no idea how much that means to me. I try very hard to be a father to my kids...
They're more video gamers then table top gamers. As far as I know they've never played pathfinder or D&D(though my 16 year old has expressed interest in 4.0 and said his friend and him were presuing a game in the fall so he might have been introduced by friends).
The 16 year old has been playing Yugi-oh for about 4 years now so I don't think this will be to complex for him. He's tried teaching his little brother to play but it hasn't gone very well(see my point about them not working together well as of late).
I have bought them the beginners box and intend to introduce them to pathfinder through that as well as the card game. As to not derail this thread if you have pointers on how to intro them to the beginners box please post them here.
I'll have the crunch up for my zen archer either later today(kind of doubtful but never know) or tomorrow before noon(more likely). Sorry for the delay I've been helping my sister in law move from MI to ST. Louis this weekend...
Seeing the influx of martial characters we already have I'm going to switch this up and do a Dhampire cleric of Zon-Kuthon.
Are you allowing the playtest classes from advanced class guide by any chase? I will gladly switch over when it releases in a couple weeks at GenCon if allowed.
Edit: DRAT beaten out by Havocprince. Well back to the drawingbored for me...
Edit x2: Would you be okay with a warpriest?
I just joined a game that has been running for a little over a year and need some help selecting non-specialty spells for my Wizard 9/Cypermage 3. I am making a Thessilonian Specialist with the wrath(evocation) concentration. Any non-evocation spell suggestions would be appreciated.
The rest of the party consists of an Oracle, a warden, a samurai/ninja trickster, and a fighter(my wife). Everyone is level 12 and they just got to Jorgenfist in Book 4. Oh and my DM is allowing me to add 3 spells/level to my spellbook instead of the standard 2 because I'm coming in so late into the campaign.
Well if you wouldn't mind expanding to 5 players my wife and I would love to join. We're new to the St. Louis area and are currently staying in a rent by the month hotel in Maryland Heights(near Page and 270) while we look for a more permanent residence. We are available pretty much every Friday night and Saturday so setting up games won't be a problem for us and once we're in a more permanent residence we would be more than happy to host as well(sorry the hotel room is a little small lol).
She has been playing under me for about a year and a half so she has some experience in Pathfinder and also played D&D back in the 90's as well. I have been playing Pathfinder since the beta and have been playing RPG's for about 15 years. I am also a DM so if your group needs another person who can DM I am willing to put my hat in the ring so to speak.
Just so we get off on the right foot I wanted to let you know I have been running ROTRL for the last year and a half but we only made it to the end of book 3. I obviously have read the rest of it but I am very willing and able to separate player knowledge from character knowledge and it won't affect my ability to contribute to the game as a player.
I will also be emailing you but thought I would throw up a post as well. If you have any questions feel free to either post here, PM me, or email me at email@example.com(thats the same email I'll be contacting you from).
Erik Mona wrote:
I am trying to keep an open mind about this product and have subscribed on the Big Finish end of things but the one issue I have is the hour run time. Was there a reason they decided on that length? My concern is that to much would have to get cut from a great adventure to fit in that time? Seeing how you have listened to this did the adventure feel rushed/to condensed? Would there be any possibility to get this pushed out to an hour and a half or 2 hours?
Will this only be published via CD? Are there any plans for marketing these as direct audio files--through itunes or Audible.com?
Pretty sure this will be downloadable from big finishes website.
Any update on when this will be out. I checked the big finish website just now and its still showing a march release. As a subscriber on the big finish site will I get contacted when its released and ready to download?
I second this approach. It is a really great way to get that other player to feel like others are doing something and to feel like he's making an important contribution w/o feeling taken advantage of.
Merisiel Sillvari wrote:
What would Alan rate if he used that magic item that reversed his gender?
The fourth book is also available for preorder I think and it is also 1 hour in length.
Can they? Is it a rare vestigial ability like it is in humans? If it isn't possible through conscious effort, what about reflexive? If you were to jump out and shout 'Boo' at an elf would their ears move in surprise? If it is possible with conscious effort, could an Elven bard use Perform (Percussion) with chimes/bells/etc. attached to their ears?
What is your reaction to this post I just found?
I'm also a little concerned about the run time but I'm sure big finish knows what there doing. When I subscribed on their website they had a release date of 2/28 and here on the blog it says expected in march, did this get pushed back again?
James Jacobs wrote:
Has that fondness grown since his assention?
I was reading one of your posts in another thread where you said "As GMs, we should embrace those as opportunities to get in and do some rules and world design of our own."
I whole heartedly agree but this kind of raises a question for me. As someone who has three new players at his game table how do I create house rules and not make them think this is a norm? Obviously I should explain to them that I'm making a ruling on an issue and that others might rule it differently but beyond that what do you suggest? Do you feel you should stray away from house rules when there are new players just learning the rules?