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One sentence summary: I'm a first time GM, and my game came to a screeching halt when a player stood up and left the game after the rest of the party voted against what he wanted to do.
Longer version: I've played a bit, but this is my first time GMing. It was going pretty well, and everyone seemed to like my NPCs, and the plot-hook, and the dungeon, and even the random encounter on the way to the dungeon.
Partway into the dungeon, they encountered a room that was supposed to be a bit of a challenge. They came upon a locked door, and a devil that was bound to guard the place. He told them that they could release the magic locking the door by going down a side passage and doing some things there. He explained that he was forced to fight them if they tried to go deeper into the dungeon, but didn't actually have to get aggressive until they tried to go for the door he was bound to. He told them freely that he would rather they die against some other guardian in the process of trying to unlock the door instead of having to kill them himself, and promised that he would let them through to the side areas without a fight, and only attack them if they succeeded there and the door unlocked. He also said that if they attacked him preemptively, he'd call for help from the adjacent rooms, which would be a tough fight (probably not unwinnable, but tough).
It was supposed to be a difficult decision and it was. Two players wanted to go through, since the devil was going to allow it and they expected he'd stay true to his word. Two players wanted to fight the devil and risk his reinforcements instead of going past him and having no escape route. The last player wanted to retreat from the dungeon and come back better-prepared.
Well, they talked it over, and eventually four out of five of them settled on going forwards. The last one still wanted to retreat and come back later. When it was pointed out to that last one that he was outvoted, he stood up and declared "Fine, if you're not going to listen to...
I'm only assuming that you run and play these games for fun yes? Because this is something that you actually enjoy doing? This person is making what you do in your free time for fun less pleasant and enjoyable. If this player's poor behavior is consistent and they are not willing to change, why are you even dealing with them? A friend, a REAL FREIND doesn't treat his/her friends like this.
Eject them from the game and MOVE ON.