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I noticed this too, reading through the Adventure Path. I was like "woah, two same-sex couples featuring in prominent roles."
Then I realized that I wouldn't have had the same thought if they were opposite-sex couples.
It's like the first issue of Shattered Star, when I realized that almost every NPC is female. I, certainly, wouldn't have noticed if they were mostly or even exclusively male. Even a cursory reading would show that's normal in modules and at my table when ad libbing.
It's also like Burnt Offerings, when I realized that the NPCs care about sex. This enormous drive that defines so much of who we are and what we do... left out because I hadn't stopped to think about it enough.
For me at least, having a bunch of same-sex couples is important because it makes me take notice. Because if I don't notice that I've been screwing this up for decades, I can't even start fixing it.
So to Paizo I say "Keep challenging my privilege." I'll still be a middle-class college-educated white dude in an opposite-sex relationship. But I'm not going to grow as a person or a GM if my assumptions don't get rattled sometimes.