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David Fryer wrote:
I fully agree with David on most points here. Like I mentioned further upthread, I haven't personally met or talked to a pro-choice person who didn't hope that it was the last resort. I didn't find the Tebow ad to go into hate speech territory, I just found it distasteful, manipulative and untruthful (not to mention CBS's hypocritical stance on running the ad).An informed choice is always better than a less informed one, so clearly a pregnant woman should have all the options explained to her and that information should be available to all. Unfortunately, even though other options might exist on paper, they might not always be feasible in real life (because of social or financial limitations etc.). Cuchulainn wrote:
It's not unusual to put on a little weight after a few years post surgery. It's not so much a stretching of the stomach as it's bad diet. You might not be able to eat much, but if you eat and drink high calorie stuff (juice, alcohol, ice cream and chocolate - i.e. stuff that goes "liquid" and just runs through the smaller stomach) then you'll start gaining weight again. It's not a "magical pill" to end weight problems, it's a tool you have to use properly to help control your weight.So yeah, I can see some of your co-workers starting to gain weight again if they don't keep up with the proper diet plan. Also, look at someone like John Popper of Blues Traveler. He had gastric bypass surgery but has started getting bigger again. Kruelaid wrote: Lot's of turbines where I live in China. Weihai. One of the windiest places in China. I think they're up to 10% of their local electricity from wind. The engineers they brought to inspect the Chinese mills weren't exactly all that impressed it seemed. Something about them being leaky, with sand and rain getting into the gears, and the crawlspace underneath the gears being full of mud (sand + rain). Bitter Thorn wrote:
Neither actually. He's one of the fancy smancy guys upstairs, doing financial analysis and business planning for the European and Asian markets. His "field work" consists of things like a trip to China to help look at a possible merger with a factory over there (and tasting the local cuisine... mmm, cow throat, cooked jellyfish and chicken feet... o.0). Garydee wrote: Good luck to you man. I know you're going down a hard road and I hope everything goes right for you. Btw, when is the date for your surgery. Do you know yet? Thanks Gary! Week 18 is the closest to a date I have, so between May 3rd and 9th. Unless I drop the required 8% weight fast enough to get on a cancellation list, then it might be sooner.Thanks for writing Quandary, you bring up a lot of good points and questions that anyone in this situation should reflect upon. I'll address them below. :-) Quandary wrote: I want to ask, you seem set on this surgery already, exactly why is that? Was this something your doctor brought up, or was it your own decision that this is your only recourse at this point? I just wanted to clarify and not just assume based on what you wrote. I made the decision on my own, after thoroughly researching it for several weeks, and my doctor agreed that it probably was my only feasible option left. It certainly wasn't an easy decision to take either. It's pretty invasive surgery (with all the possible complications that might entail) and I weighed the pros and cons a lot for a while before making the final decision.I'd also like to make it clear that the above post is just a quick run-through of what I've been through. Quandary wrote: I can sympathize with your 'shifting diagnoses' experience with psychiatry, but I think you shouldn't necessarily just passively accept whatever the latest diagnoses is, or rather just use that as a "blinder" on how you see and approach your own situation. I mean, if working with your psychiatrist and their presriptions is helpful, by all means continue, but you yourself probably have the best insight to your own issues and what is behind things like the binge-eating you mention, which sounds somewhat distinct from your over-all issue of obesity, but one that sabotages anything you do to overcome that main issue. What other sort of support do you have in your life, have you worked with anybody like a psychologist or do you rely on family on friends? Or are you a stoic, self-reliant individualist? :-) (I probably tend toward the latter, myself, unfortunately) I feel that my present diagnosis is much more fitting than my earlier one, since I lack the constant lowered mood "required" in a dysthymia. I am currently not taking any drugs and is working with a psychologist (who also confers with a psychiatrist). I'm also attending an out-patient day treatment, which entails things like group therapy and exercise. The psychologist and out-patient program are all part of the local hospital, so there's plenty interaction between the two parts. On the surgery front, I'm also part of a great support group here in town for pre- and post-op people or anyone who wishes to know more about the surgeries. The group meets once a month and there's also a great weight-loss surgery association that covers the entire country.That aside, yeah, I know that there are psychological reasons for part of my weight-gain. I have very low self-esteem and have used food for comfort. Part of the low self-esteem does stem from my overweight, though, so I hope that part of it will get better. :-) Quandary wrote:
I hear what you're saying. I've studied physiology and nutrition as a sort of hobby for many years (in connection with weight lifting), so I have all the technical knowledge I need when it comes to dieting and exercising. The problem is my lack of satiety, which completely overrides the logical thinking behind a diet plan, when your gut is screaming to be fed. It's the same battle that happens in many people on a psychological level when their emotions overpower their logical thinking and they do things that they wouldn't normally do, if rationality had anything to say about it. Also, what happens physiologically when you put on a lot of weight is that the body starts to accept this new weight as the norm after a while, thus it's hard to shed the weight again, because you're fighting against your own body which is trying to get you back to "normal" again.There's a reason why, sadly, up to 98% of all overweight people cannot sustain a prolonged weight-loss by diet and exercise alone. So you'd have to drop all the extra weight and maintain that weight for a couple of years before the body would adjust "down" to the new normal. Furthermore, I have no illusions about it being a smooth ride after the surgery. I know it's going to take a lot hard work on my part, the good thing, though, is that I cannot physically gorge myself like before. The stomach just isn't going to be big enough to do that (plus you risk feeling very, very uncomfortable). Quandary wrote:
Like I said above, I know that there are quite successful ways of dropping weight, the problem is maintaining the weight loss. :-) One of the problems I have, is that I have a hard time making elaborate healthy dishes, not because I don't know how (I also have some great cook books with great dishes in them), but because I can't muster the energy and drive to do it (that's the simple schizophrenia kicking in). That's why my diet plan after the surgery is going to be very simple, yet still healthy.I think one of the biggest things I'm going to miss afterwards (besides eating whole pizzas on game night) is the sugar in my tea... I still haven't found a substitute that I find palatable. :-) Again, thanks for posting. If you, or anyone else, have more questions feel free to ask them. :-) Okay, I'm going to tap into that dreadful stereotype of most gamers being overweight and see if there are any fellow "sufferers" out there.
I've always been a big guy. Not in an obese way, but I'm 6'6" and built solidly, with lots of natural muscle mass - the guy people came to first when they had to move heavy furniture around or to help move to another place. I've also been very active in sports, from soccer over European handball and basketball to American football most recently.
So, last fall I decided that enough was enough. I thoroughly researched the whole spectrum of weight-loss surgeries and through my doctor got an appointment at a dietician (I also knew from my visit to the life-style camp that the scales at my doctor's office wouldn't be able to weigh me), which also happened to coincide with my doctor telling me, after some tests, that I was in the pre-stage of type II diabetes...
Solnes wrote: Hey Jenny. I have to say I was skeptical that you were THE Jenny Poussin, the one who models the clothing line that sells best in my stores. I have seen many of your pics, many of them hang in our store, Body Zone is our main clothing line. The fantasy art is cool though. Considering the pictures are in a special Paizo folder on her site, I'd say that validates her. :-) Grats on the new store again, btw. :-)Jenny Poussin wrote:
A lot of people, unfortunately, cannot differentiate between a person and their job. Luckily, roleplayers are generally a much more accomodating bunch, so you've picked up a great hobby in that respect (plus the hobby itself is, of course, great too!). But it also shows the great diversity within the hobby, it attracts people from all runs of life and hopefully we'll be able to welcome all newcomers with open arms. :-)Kakarasa wrote:
Nudity =/= porn. While Jenny's site probably can be classified as an "adult" page (i.e. it contains nudity), it isn't porn. Nice pictures btw. :-) Actual footage of Bob Marshall's speech. delabarre wrote:
I'd also like this to not devolve into a pro-/anti-abortion argument. If anyone is interested in that, there has already been a long discussion about that before, just search the site for all the sides weighing in on that. I know I responded above to a question about abortion, which I probably shouldn't have in hindsight.I'm more curious about the aspects of acceptance when it comes to religious beliefs affecting politics in the US in 2010 qua the questions I posed above. Also, whether it's acceptable to base politics on some religious beliefs but not others and if it's okay to impose these politics on people who might not share the same religious beliefs. Should politicians work for the common good of ALL people or just those who voted for them and thus might agree with them on issues that shouldn't necessary have anything to do with politics (such as religious beliefs).? Samnell wrote:
Acceptable to anyone. Is it okay to base regular politics and how they affect large parts of the population on religious belief? Would any religious belief be okay or just Christian doctrines? Does it sit okay with everyone, regardless of political affiliation, to cut back on some rather basic rights for a part of the population, rights which were already in the books, because of religious beliefs?Is it okay to move backwards in how far the country has progressed? IS it a move backwards, if not why? (all of the above are general questions to the entire thread) Vendle wrote: Most people use the term "pro-choice" because it sounds less bloodthirsty and doesn't remind people as much that an inconvenient life is involved. But hey, if you're pro-abortion that's cool, too. As opposed to all the pro-life people who will scream and shout about "baby-killers" (even if what might be removed is just a cluster of cells) and so on, while after the baby is born they don't seem to care what happens to it and its mother? All the while also supporting the death sentence and war in foreign nations. I have yet to meet a pro-choice person who doesn't wish that abortion wasn't necessary, they just want the option to be available if that's the hard decision that has to be made (myself included). That's why it's called pro-choice, not pro-abortion.Link to tv segment here.
Is this mindset acceptable in US politics in 2010? Bitter Thorn wrote: are loans taxed as income there? Not as such, but the interest on the loan is a deductible, which is why it has to be mentioned. On the other hand if YOU loan a friend some money and get interests on it, you are taxed on those interests as income. EDIT: Keep in mind that I'm by no means an expert on taxes. I've only had low income jobs or been on welfare (including student payments... yes, we get paid to study over here), so my tax returns have been very simple and most years I don't really have to do anything as I have no changes to the already filled out papers. David Fryer wrote: Except that, as I understand it, Denmark has higher taxes than the United States does. Kirth Gersen wrote:
The key words here in the OECD quotation are "UP TO" - while some do pay what amounts to close to 60% in taxes (made up by regular taxes + extra taxes for very high income people - can't remember the cut-off line), most people pay around 35-40% income tax (my current income is taxed at 39%, but I also have a large deductible because of debt). When comparing US and Danish taxes remember to calculate such things as US health insurance too (since we have universal health care).Now, I have no first hand experience with US tax forms but I think most Danish tax forms are much simpler (going by the typical images of Americans slavering for days over their tax forms around April). Obviously small business owners, some consultants (who might work for several different companies) and such might have slightly more complicated forms, but if your income doesn't really change from year to year it's a relatively simple matter of filling out your tax form (if at all, it lists your general income and such, so you only have to put in extra (or less) income, new loans (well, their interests as deductibles really), new large purchases (cars, boats etc.)). Disenchanter wrote:
Yeah, I stumbled on that one too. That's a "safer" way to protest, though, if we're talking cost of lives.Mark Chance wrote:
The view must really be extraordinary from up there. Is it a stallion or a mare you're riding? Clearly you're not interested in discussing anyone with dissenting opinions yourself, so I'll not belabour the point anymore.And no one was screaming anything... oh look, you actually used a real strawman argument. David Fryer wrote:
So nothing on this scale since McVeigh in Oklahoma. Which, of course, is a good thing!I was just curious about whether someone had felt pushed to similar extremes that might have escaped my attention in recent years. Mark Chance wrote:
I simply put down the key words for brevity instead of writing a long rant on the subject. I don't know what else you'd call it than painting the church as "shiny and unblemished" when you write "The Catholic Church has done and continues to do more for the world's poor than any other single institution, and it has been doing so for longer than any other single institution" with no mention of the at times horrible way the church tries to "help" anyone (my key words of Africa, AIDS and condoms - also Mother Teresa and her "help" in India).Furthermore, my "semicoherent string of incomplete sentences" are just some of the more wellknown stances of the church where it clashes with a lot of people. It's view on Abortion being a big one, which crops up all the time, like not that long ago in Brazil with a young girl (9-years-old!) was raped and the church excommunicated her and the doctor who performed an abortion on her (the pregnancy would have killed her). Mark Chance wrote:
Most protests over here have been by large rowdy groups. I'm curious if anyone else has blown up buildings or something similar over taxes (in more recent times)? Mark Chance wrote:
I've completely forgotten where I read it, but there's also some studying/thinking going into how we are emotionally affected less and less as the distance from ourselves increase. It might seem obvious, but there are actual data about how we are less affected when something horrible happens on the other side of the world. Also, even though we might be very emotionally affected by something, it also fades faster if it happened far away. Mark Chance wrote:
Ahh, so because people disagree with you about how great the Catholic Church is they are not "reasonable adults capable of exchanging different points of view" and their views are "craptacular nonsense" and "stupid quips." Gotcha.I'm glad you were able to address and refute the points I made, you know, like a "reasonable [adult] capable of exchanging different points of view" would do. Sorry, but when you try to paint the Catholic Church in a shiny and unblemished light, I'll gladly point out the dark and ugly underside. If you'd like another point of view, I'll gladly point you to this delightful clip with Stephen Fry. Mark Chance wrote: So, regarding Airplane-Crashing Tax-Protestor, have there been any recent developments. I barely pay attention the news nowadays. You are, however, right that the above is actually a derail of the original thread. I'm curious about whether anyone has gone to these extremes before regarding taxation?LMPjr007 wrote: What about advertising for RPG publishers? Lilith wrote:
Mark Chance wrote:
Yes, you are right. Let's completely disregard the dark side of the Catholic Church. Here are a few choice key-words: Rampant misogyny.Africa + AIDS + condoms. Mother Teresa + "virtue" of suffering + poverty + abortion. Abortion. I'm guessing Vic is alluding to the rebranding of the Companion line to Pathfinder Player Companion (as expressed by Erik in his blog post), thus making this line entirely player focused (vs. the GM focused Chronicles line). Some future titles might even shift from Chronicles to the (Player) Companion line and vice versa.
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On the other hand, take a look at some of the weapons which are given the "trip" descriptor. Sickle, Kama and the Scythe. None of these weapons were designed as specific tripping weapons (only the Kama comes even close in some forms of its use) and all of them "hook" with the sharp edge of the blade. Thus you'd just as likely shear someone's legs off with a Scythe as you would with a sword (which you could actually turn to use the flat of the blade to hit someone over the knees with) Entropi wrote: try this. Strange that it didn't show up when I searched for it... oh well, I've joined now. :-) Entropi wrote:
Couldn't find such a group... David Fryer wrote:
Get another bank (I know, not easy in these economically troubling times). ;-) James Jacobs wrote:
So, going with this ruling I then have a problem with the weapons that have the "trip" special descriptor. If the criteria is that it can be used to "hook" or "ensnare" the opponent's legs, then there are a lot of extra weapons that would fit those criteria. Off the top of my head, axes, hammers, picks (heck, even a crossbow in melee).Also, if another criteria could be "sweeping" i.e. a leg sweep, which you used as an example, then things like hammers, maces, clubs, spears and quarterstaffs would certainly fit too (to knock or "sweep" away an opponents legs). If the list of "trip" weapons was expanded I'd feel much better about the ruling. Mirror, Mirror wrote:
Yes... at a much lower CMB than with a weapon, though (unless you specifically make characters who only use one of the 10 "trip" weapons). Rake wrote:
Actually, it's also what the book DOESN'T say (i.e. it isn't explicitly written in the Trip section), namely that you can only use "trip" weapons to trip. So, you have only 10* weapons with which you can trip (I categorized the flail and its heavy and dire versions as one as they're basically just variants of the same weapon) of which one is a non-leathal weaon, two are exotic weapons (three if you count the dire flail) and one is a ranged weapon. Not sure how to classify unarmed attack since it isn't designated as a "trip" weapon.I have to say that I find that way too limiting. Trip just became way too situational to use unless you specialize in it. Way IMO, of course. (Yes, I used "way" way too much in that paragraph) * Sickle, Flail, Flail, heavy, Guisarme, Halberd, Scythe, Kama, Whip, Chain, spiked, Flail, dire, Hammer, gnome hooked, Bolas Rake wrote:
I'd like to disagree with the summary above. As I read it you can trip with any attack/weapon you have handy (no, the gauntlet/longspear combo doesn't work, you only have reach because of the longspear, thus you can't attack an enemy 10' away with your gauntlet, that's just common sense) - "trip" weapons only bestow the ability to drop it to avoid the result of a bad CMB check.The CMB description and the Trip section clearly spells that out. IF the above summary should be true, then I'm baffled why it isn't spelled out in the Trip section that you can only use "trip" weapons (or a monk using Flurry of Blows - since Unarmed Attack isn't designated as a "trip" weapon) when making a trip attempt. I can see that the "You can use a trip weapon to make trip attacks." line causes a lot of confusion (and I'd also like to make another point from a post in the other thread, namely that it says "can use" not "must use"). I believe it's a superflous sentence - or a descriptive only sentence at best. So, the way I see it (depending on whether an official ruling is forthcoming and what it is) one of two things is "wrong" in the rules: 1) The "You can use a trip weapon to make trip attacks." is superflous and should be stricken (because you can use any attack/weapon to Trip). 2) The Trip section is missing a clarification that you can only use "trip" weapons to perform a Trip maneuver. Neithan wrote: It seems that you can only buy something in the Paizo store with a credit card and that you can't buy Paizo products at RPGNow. Is there a way to get the pdfs without a credit card? You can also use debit cards, e.g. VISA Electron, if you have such a card. Most people should be able to get a hold of such a card even if they can't get a credit card. Stegger wrote: Not to highjack Entropis thread, but the vat is ok to me, it is the fee from the custom service that is way to hígh, as it often doubles the price for the book shipment. Definitely. I don't mind paying our 25% VAT (the books are still cheaper coming from the US). It's the $28.50/€21 handling fee that's the problem. Our customs duty for books are also 0%.Any imported goods from outside the EU worth more than $14.75/€10.75 (including shipping costs) are subject to Danish VAT. So, even if I get a shipment of just one book, e.g. a Companion book that's less than $10 (with the Pathfinder Advantage), with shipping it's most likely going to go over the $14.75 limit, I still have to pay the full $28.50/€21 handling fee, instantly doubling the cost of the book (even before VAT is calculated). Unfortunately there is no practical way for us to calculate and pay the VAT ourselves. There is a way to do it, but it requires handing in forms to the customs bureau with a detailed list of what's being shipped to you (not the hard part), its exact price (not a problem either) AND when exactly it'll arrive at a Danish border/customs control (THAT is the problem). That's usually not a problem for big importing companies, but it's a problem for common people like us. I will admit to having only read the last page so some of my confusion might stem from that.
PRD wrote:
I think Louis IX explained it quite well above. Feel free to think that you can only trip with "trip" weapons, but that's not what the rules say. They just give you the option of avoiding being tripped back by a failed trip attempt (if you let go of the weapon). It's the same way that an adamantine weapon gives you an edge when sundering items because it ignores hardness (less than 20).I find that this video addresses the issue quite well (apply it to all situations, not just racism):
I'm officially stoked!
Nylanfs wrote:
Thanks, had a look at them. Unfortunately they seem somehow incomplete or at least lacking a lot of info you get from some of the other sheets. Also, I'd really like something similar to statblock5.html. It looks like I might have to look into it myself... if I can collect my thoughts long enough to get it done.Gworeth wrote: Yup! Sounds about right... :) That's just because you have one yer self.. ;) Tru dat! Also, check out this article on deviantART:
Andrew Turner wrote: You know, this thread should probably be in the Tech Section of the messageboards, oh--that section seems to be missing... See, I told you!
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