I'd love to run a pathfinder game. I thought I had a group of people who wanted to play. They're a family that I've been friends with for a couple of years. I went over there the other night and when we got to the part about how you can bee any type of character class like a bard, cleric, sorcerer or wizard when the mother stopped me saying : We're Christians, I can't have my kids playing a game that has magic in it.
WTF!? What does playing a game that refers to magic have to do with Christianity? To be offended in any way you'd have to
A) Believe that magic is real
B) Think that it's somehow harmful
C) Think that a game where a spell is essentially just another way to say "hit for X points of damage" is somehow an evil corrupting force.
I was pretty surprised. I tend to live a rational, evidence based life and that just blew me away. There was no logic at all to her argument, but it's their family so I let it pass and we played a different game.
In any case, I need to find some players. Meetup.com charges about $20 a month to create a meetup group and all the other D&D groups on the site are 40 to 50 miles away. I may have to just pay the money and build a meetup group for my town.
There's also a very small game shop in town and I'll ask the owner if I could put a flyer up on his bulletin board.
I'm just a little worried about inviting random people into my home.
I should mention that I'm in my 40's and my wife and friends kind of think that the whole D&D thing is pretty geeky and weird. So it's a tough sell to try to get them to play.
So how do you folks find new players that are compatible? How do you "screen" them?