the funeral of Ameiko's father and brother.
One of my players is running his PC as having fallen for Ameiko since the Swallowtail festival - a half-elf fighter, no less. During the festival, he even won a feat of strength that got him a free dinner coupon for winner of the food competition that year (Rusty Dragon, obviously). Never-mind that a certain obsessive man has, among other things, stolen that token from him, foreshadowing the next chapter.... (I even erased the item from his sheet between games and let him find out on his own later...) :)
But I digress.
I'm inclined to challenge him with his courtship of her. The level of depth and maturity for the group is well discussed and agreed upon before we ever started, so I'm confident that I could go fairly strong drama-wise without flipping him out. We're all in our thirties, FWIW.
In preparation for their funerals, the Gnome Bard has been enlisted to assist the 1/2 Elf Fighter in dressing appropriately and providing social instructions so as to not inadvertently disrespect her family. So she is looking for me to provide some detail about the funeral so she can tell him what not to do....
I'm looking at the funeral as being a Japanese / Buddhist ceremony, being that the tradition of Tian Xia is supposed to be loosely based on this. I'm willing to buy that their family has been in Sandpoint long enough to kind of incorporate local traditions in the mix, but I also would like this to be as inclusive as possible. Am I off the trail here?
I'm also sensitive to the idea of good game design doesn't mean one guy plays while everyone watches for an hour. Anything that provides a better experience for the group playing at the expense of "realism" or whatever is A-OK for me.
Any ideas on how to bring people together? My initial inclination is that the "Heroes of Sandpoint" and many of the townspeople will turn out for the Lonjiku funeral out of respect for the founding family patriarch and his former place in the region. This brings all of the PCs into it, and part of the ceremony may be shared among them.
The Bard arranged with the Sandpoint Boutique for getting a custom dress for Ameiko as a gift on this somber occasion. I figure since his wife's funeral was just a little bit ago that they are familiar with what is appropriate already. Do you think this jives?