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I don't think there's anything wrong with finding another co-worker attractive. After all, we're only human, and it's part of our biology. I think where it gets creepy is if you stare, or make inappropriate comments, advances etc.
Treat your fellow co-workers with the same amount of respect that you'd treat your boss, or your friends, and I think you'll be fine.
It's noraml to do so but don't fantacize about them that can led to problems when you have to interact with them.
PS don't stare.
And then don't send them creepy emails or stand at their mail box just outside their house, staring at their windows. They WILL call the cops on you...
...just sayin.
It puts the lotion on it's skin or else it gets the hose again
...just sayin.
It's noraml to do so but don't fantacize about them that can led to problems when you have to interact with them.
PS don't stare.
And then don't send them creepy emails or stand at their mail box just outside their house, staring at their windows. They WILL call the cops on you...
...just sayin.
It puts the lotion on it's skin or else it gets the hose again
...just sayin.
Why do you collect their skins, Joela?
That looks like a 9 sitting down.Is this your boss?
What if your boss is a hot little number?
I thought it was an "g" doing a backflip.
LOL. Thanks, everyone.
I definitely don't stare. (I think). Or drool. (I think). In some ways I treat it as though I'm at a bar; I look but eyes dart away if there's a smidgen of a chance of eye contact. Or like back in high school where I wait until their back's to me. (Which is kinda the best part, since I like backsides ^_^).
What is cool about my Job... Is that No one looks good in an Airman Battle Uniform (ABU)
There are a lot of attractive folks at my job and, because of where my cube's situated, I see them. A lot. I've been enjoying it but am wondering if that's the wrong attitude. These are my colleagues!
It's okay. Look, but don't stare. Where do you work that everyone's so attractive? I dont' ask out of snark, my wife used to work in the fashion industry and had to get used to models running around in their underwear all day, which was hard(heh) on me when I visited.
Ahh shoot, I was going to suggest putting up a webcam or a digital camera in some innocuous place and just record them. Then you could gawk all you wanted in the comfort of your own home (or on the laptop in the parking lot if a certain spousal unit would disprove of doing so at home).
But I guess all the other suggestions are much more rational... :-p
Damn spousal units and their disapproval!
I know. You could have one hundred girlfriends and they'd find fault with every one of them. ;)
I was once pulled aside for "making someone
feel uncomfortable at work" one time. My
boss pulled me into his office and told me
to never speak to the person, avoid all contact
and in general don't ever stop by her desk. Of
course I was shocked, and had been talking to this
girl for sometime. I would always (cause I had a crush
on her) talk to her and was friendly, and would flirt a little,
but I never thought that I had stepped over the line.
So after feeling like a total bastard, I sat at my desk
trying to figure out what went wrong. Then I saw her go
into his office...and I started to plan out how I would put
my things into that "white box".
Turns out that someone had been "creeping her out" at the office,
but since they always saw me talking to her, they thought she
was referring to me (I'm not THAT creepy...). She went into
his office to straighten out the story, clearing my name.
Moral of the story: Being at the wrong end of that kind of thing really sucks...oh yea and I'm not THAT creepy...mostly.
