Lady_Sallrana Qillon Silvermoon |
"Not every one", sooo that means there is someone, and knowing just who that is can be hard soooo
Mistrust everyone just be on the safe side it the only way.
Lady_Sallrana Qillon Silvermoon |
Think we may have lost the GM some place
Lady_Sallrana Qillon Silvermoon |
It's funny Rick is a bard, yet he's not sung a song or plaid any thing, Sallrana is talking him under the table. And he's used silent image, humm
i think he my be a halfling mime artist.
Go one do glass wall at them,
Hehe
Sorry but it's true.
Lady_Sallrana Qillon Silvermoon |
we can wait real life comes 1st GM
GM Gatsby |
Okay guys, full disclosure time.
My recent posting has been erratic, at best, and I’m just writing this quick post to let you know why. It’s not that I’m dissatisfied with the games – they’re great, and I enjoy GMing for you. It’s just that my working life has become… a lot less fun than it was. One single co-worker is doing her best to make my life hell, including making accusations to my boss over my work ethic – completely unfounded, before anybody makes any snarky comments. ;)
She is just a terrible, terrible person – I’m not the only person in the area to have problems with her, just the latest in a long line, and it means that I’m heading out and drinking a lot more as well as trying to stay out of the office at work to avoid confrontations. Because of this, I’m simply spending less time at the computer – I’m sure as soon as things improve I’ll be back to regular updates, but I’m afraid I might be sketchy for a bit – at least until this either clears up or I just get used to having a hostile idiot trying to check me at every turn.
So there – full, unpleasant disclosure. Sorry guys – I hope it gets better.
Lady_Sallrana Qillon Silvermoon |
GM PM
chillblame |
As someone who has been through this sort of garbage, here is some advise.
First never lose your cool. This is hard, but getting angry over this never helps.
Second keep a diary and record every day. include notes on the weather and personal events, but also every encounter with this person. This will allow you verifiable evidence you are been harassed. This can be important if it ever goes to a incompetence or harassment hearing, or even court.
Three don't let it get to you. People like this thrive on getting a rise.
Four complain to your boss. use your judgement on this, as it depends how well you get on with your boss. But you have a right to a happy, safe work environment.
Hope that helps.
Vrog Skyreaver |
I'd actually ask HR or your boss for mediation. When you get to the scheduled mediation session, use I statements and explain how you feel. Don't mention anyone else's experience with this person, unless you were there. Make sure to cite specific instances that can be corroborated by others, and make sure you let it be known that you don't appreciate such behavior, using the politest terms possible. If the co-worker brings up your performance during the mediation, I would (again politely) thank her for her suggestions, but point out that regulating other people's behavior is not her job (as I'm assuming by the fact you called her a co-worker, not a supervisor that she's on the same level, as you are).
Be exceedingly polite, but let her know in no uncertain terms that you don't appreciate her bullying.
Lady_Sallrana Qillon Silvermoon |
Now you started her off.
Lady_Sallrana Qillon Silvermoon |
Just posted an idea
Lady_Sallrana Qillon Silvermoon |
Guys works just told me I have to cover for someone in another office for 3 weeks. So its hotel living over seas.
Soon as I get back Ill post again, but for now say she tags along or is investigating HawCroft
GM shes all yours
back soon.
GM Gatsby |
Ugh... sorry for another big gap - but things are actually beginning to look up, and I've spent some time ensuring that I'll have free time over the next few weeks to relax - PBP. Expect a semi-regular update schedule again, just like the old days!
Barring a meteor strike, or something of that nature.
Lady_Sallrana Qillon Silvermoon |
YAA!! got internet, slow as hell but hotel Wifi + Ipad mini + and a VPN gives me Intetnet, well at AM dont no if it will last the day.
So I can post until move hotel on Sat.
Judge John |
You know, I have always thought you should have to pass a test to be a parent. Apart from the physical requirements. I have met too many bad parents. I mean you have too to be a teacher (lots of tests and assignments and people standing judgment over you).
Wow I just read this post, and it's happened. I have become my father. More tech savey but still.
Thought I would share some news. I have just been awarded my masters degree in writing. Really pleased about it. My doctorate awaits.
Judge John |
Hmmm.
myself, jack and roger draw attention, and we see what happens. Defensive casting advised, this could go pear shaped really fast. But I'm hoping to roleplay a solution. If you have any party buffs, nows the time to use it.
Jack Mister |
Gatsby; Just wanted to say, love your work. This bozo as just a representation of smug corporate greed to me, and he just became a 3D person who I can see Jack might actually - and against his will - start to admire.
Beautiful Scene.
Lady_Sallrana Qillon Silvermoon |
@GM
I agree with Jake, great scene GM.
@john
And there was you thinking Sallrana was all paranoid, hehe
Lady_Sallrana Qillon Silvermoon |
narr he's playing devils abdicate for the city, acting as the voice of the mob, in that way he's keeping to sway them.
Lady_Sallrana Qillon Silvermoon |
Waiting on the GM
O and great news job
I fellow with a masters just like me. [computer science at UCL]
Need working on my PhD for 10 years I'll do it one day hehe
Lady_Sallrana Qillon Silvermoon |
Such a dramatic moment on hold
Jack you going to jump on the stage as well.
Lady_Sallrana Qillon Silvermoon |
O what a place to end it all, the humanity
Lady_Sallrana Qillon Silvermoon |
Think is over, slow then stop, we may be lucky but it looks bad guys.
Lady_Sallrana Qillon Silvermoon |
I'm calling this one
Dead game
GM left
GM Gatsby |
Hey, I just went for a long walk.
To hospital.
Yeah...
I love the game, but sadly health had to take a priority this week. I'd love to say I've been doing other fun things, but for the majority of the last week I've been doing nothing but shivering and hallucinating.
I am not, however, dead. Yet.
I am unable to make a proper party until I get back to my notes, asd updating without my notes, from my phone, is damn hard. I estimate another day or two of inactivity on my end, at the least. But the lights are still on.
Ben
Lady_Sallrana Qillon Silvermoon |
what what what o man now a feel like a jurk, and after I had an opp as well :(